From Vaginismus to Pleasure Warrior In one of Netflix’s hottest new shows, Unorthodox, a young woman named Esty cannot consummate her marriage for almost a year due to excruciating attempts at coitus. Eventually, she’s given a diagnosis of vaginismus, the condition of having overly tight and weak pelvic floor muscles.This show transported me back to the ’80s, when I was in college. Like Esty, I tried for months to have intercourse before I was able to, and then, only with…