Not many people get married four days after a proposal. But for me, being married was the one thing I thought would comfort me as I headed into a high-risk heart surgery. So, I proposed. Born with Tetralogy of Fallot You see, I was born with tetralogy of Fallot 37 years ago. I had my first open-heart surgery when I was 18 months old and again when I was 4. I went back for checkups periodically after that, and then…